Why I Left Computer Science to Study Social Work – And Why My Parents Weren’t Surprised
Life isn’t a straight path. Sometimes we take detours, change our minds, or simply take longer to figure out what truly suits us. And maybe, in every family, there’s that one person who chooses differently – the so-called “black sheep.” I guess I’m that person. And honestly? I’m okay with that.
If there’s one thing I want to share with you, it’s this:
Let go of what others think of you – what truly matters is what you think of yourself.
Because your mindset influences what you do and ultimately shapes your future.
We can start over at any moment – and the most powerful thing is: every second holds the potential for change.
Just because I changed my major doesn’t mean I’ve turned my back on computer science forever. I’m simply choosing to follow my strengths. And that’s why this new path feels more aligned – and honestly, more me. This degree fits into my life in a way that my previous one never did.
I love working with people. I love listening, understanding, and helping – no matter if someone is young or old.
During my gap year (FSJ), I once spoke with a resident who was struggling with her siblings. I gently asked her why she was sad, and she opened up about how she admired her sister’s confidence and how her brother was always there for her. She felt left out and insecure.
I told her something simple but honest: that her sister might not be as confident as she seems – that things often look different on the outside. I encouraged her to talk about these feelings instead of holding them in and feeling unfairly treated.
She smiled. Her energy shifted. And in that moment, I realized how powerful small conversations can be.
That’s why I changed my path – because I missed that.